Thursday, June 18, 2026

Ivan Illich, Oscar Wilde And "Bowling Alone In America": How The Modern World Has Destroyed "The Extended Family" And "The Three Generation Family," Exploding American Society In A Space Shuttle Columbia Rocket Burst Of Individualized Atomization. With The Cultural Revolution Of The 1960s, The Ties That Held Us Together Suddenly Blew Apart... And From Then On, We Have Lived In A Self-Interested World Where - In Any Ultimate Sense - "It's Everyone For Themselves"

Secularization, Rugged Individualism And The Loss Of Community... What Does "Bowling Alone" Have To Do With It?

https://newsfrombarbaria.blogspot.com/2022/09/secularization-and-loss-of-community.html

I belong to the last generation of Americans who grew up in an intact “three generation family,” which is to say, an integrated family comprised of grandparents, parents and children.

Until the cultural revolution of the 1960s, human beings ALWAYS grew up in mutually-supportive extended families - or, at minimum, three generation families.

In my 3-generation family, we ate at my grandparents home at least once a week; my grandparents ate at my nuclear family's home at least once a week; and if Mom and Dad wanted to "go out," Mum and Gramp were always "Johnny on the Spot."

It is also true that church communities (in my case the Catholic parish community) was always a dependable social, economic and educational backdrop/backstop to "the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune."

Then, our modern - and postmodern - worlds exploded into a rocket burst of individual atomization.

The ties that bound society together blew apart and, from then on, we have lived in a self-interested world where, in any ultimate sense, "it's everyone for themselves."

Suddenly, we made it our social goal to replace the value of extended families, with the purchasable services (for a precisely-defined price) that replaced the value of a social system where one parent always stayed at home, and where grandparents could babysit when the parents wanted to “go out,” by way of purchasing daycare and babysitters.

Currently, the United States is home to more single-person households than any society in the history of the world -- as a direct result of Capitalism's creation of universal consumerism.

Where once we enjoyed supportive, interactive societies, now it's a free-for-all, albeit a damned expensive free-for-all in which the ever-expanding underclass makes it necessary to put a higher percentage of our citizens behind bars than any country in the history of the world, including the Soviet Union at the height of the gulag. https://share.google/aimode/w0W55R0bZ1XbZCcKE

The United States Of America: "We're #1" (Ah! The Shame...)


We are no longer a civilized country, and only think we are because there are so many rich and ultra-rich citizens that they can sustain the fiction.

Google, “Bowling Alone in America” for quick insight into what this radical, unprecedented transformation in our social structure, has meant for the modern and postmodern world. https://share.google/aimode/ORDaoRJMPjAZ6RYb9

Currently, there are more single person households in the United States than in any society - EVER - in the history of the world.

I believe that this de facto experiment in “social engineering” is the biggest experiment humankind has run, ever since Lucy “came down from the trees” in the Olduvai Gorge.

If I had to bet, I would say that America's skyrocketing measures of neurosis, psychosis, fatal shootings, generalized mayhem (even in the Oval Office) and the generalized normalization of cruelty (especially in the White House), are fundamentally attributable to the fact that atomized, highly- individualized societies like Uncle Sam’s are not viable "over the long haul," except for those relatively few wealthy people who can “pay the price” that enables them to purchase what used to be the valuable services that were formerly offered - automatically (and without any fee-for- service) by members of “the extended family,” or “the three generation family.”

Capitalist Consumerism has reduced the United States to a "Values Void," where the automatic default is to buy stuff and ever more stuff in the ill-fated project of trying to fill the void (left by The System's nullification of "Value") with purchaseable pleasures that comprise what Christendom used to call "the glamor of Satan." https://share.google/aimode/6WVspRr5QDvy38ymT

Priest-scholar Ivan Illich probes the ongoing "replacement of value by price," and Oscar Wilde has defined an American as "someone who knows the price of everything and the value of nothing."

The 20th Century Writers Who Have Been Most Influential in the Development of My "Outlook" and Worldview are Ivan Illich, Hannah Arendt, Thomas Merton, Wendell Berry, Neil Postman and G.K. Chesterton




Wednesday, June 17, 2026

Uruguayan President Jose "Pepe" Mujica Was "The Best." As Charlie Kirk Would Say, "Prove Me Wrong"


In the above blurb, the first six words mean "I spent 14 years in prison..."

Why was the president of Uruguay imprisoned for 14 years? 

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The Recently-Deceased President Of Uruguay, Farmer Jose "Pepe" Mujica, Tells The Truth With Breath-Taking Candor. (At The End Of This Post, Pepe's Video Discourse Is EXTRAORDINARY!)

https://newsfrombarbaria.blogspot.com/2026/05/the-recently-deceased-president-of.html

See Pepe's 9 minute video on "El Valor De La Vida" at:

https://chamlaty.com/2020/01/20/el-valor-de-la-libertad-por-pepe-mujica/



"El presidente Mujica tiene una extraordinaria credibilidad en lo que se refiere a asuntos de democracia y derechos humanos, dados sus fuertes valores y su historia personal, y es un líder en esos asuntos en todo el hemisferio".
El presidente de EE.UU., Barack Obama

 Alan Archibald

This "charla" by recently deceased Uruguayan president by Jose "Pepe" Mujica is the most insightful rap I've heard by any politician, anywhere.
"Make your own work in the world."
Do not sell your labor to help accomplish the goals of system-rigging capitalists (and their administrators) -- people you would not even want to socialize with if you knew them personally.
Check out the summary of Pepe's analysis, which begins at the 9:18 mark.
Want less, get more.
Remember.
Even billionaires like Trump and Musk are not happy people.
They are driven by demons:
Their greed is insatiable.
Their anxiety is boundless.
Peace eludes them because they are clueless about "right-living."
In Buddhism, what is "Right Living?"



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Alan Archibald
In Buddhism, what is "Right Living?" https://share.google/aimode/feV9o5220KhovRrX8
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1.-  «Si sos joven, tenés que saber esto: la vida se te escapa y se te va minuto a minuto y no puedes ir al supermercado y comprar vida, entonces lucha por vivirla, por darle contenido a la vida» – Parte del discurso que dio 2014, en un homenaje realizado en la Unión de Naciones Suramericanas (Unasur)

2.- «Pobres no son los que tienen poco. Pobres son los que quieren mucho. Yo no vivo con pobreza, vivo con austeridad, con renunciamiento. Preciso poco para vivir» – En una entrevista de 2012 con la Agencia AFP, cuando se lo presentaba como «el presidente más pobre del mundo».

3.-  «Los enemigos de la vida son los miedos que llevamos adentro» – Lo dijo a mediados de la década de 1990, en entrevista con Jesús Quinteros para su recordado programa El Perro Verde.

4.- «La vida no es solo trabajar. Hay que dejarle un buen capítulo para las locuras que tenga cada uno, porque una cosa que haces por obligación no sos libre. Sos libre cuando gastas tiempo de tu vida en cosas que a ti te motivan, que te gustan» – «Pepe Mujica | Mi entrevista más sincera», su charla para el ciclo All These Humans

5.-  «Pertenezco a una generación que quiso cambiar el mundo, fui aplastado, derrotado, pulverizado, pero sigo soñando que vale la pena luchar para que la gente pueda vivir un poco mejor y con un mayor sentido de igualdad» – En 2013, en una entrevista con Los Desayunos de TVE, cuando era presidente.

6.- “La paz se lleva adentro. El premio ya lo tengo. Está en las calles de mi país, en el abrazo de mis paisanos, de los ranchos humildes” — En la misma entrevista, hablando sobre un posible Nobel de la paz.

7.- «No hay ninguna adicción buena, ninguna, salvo la del amor»En entrevista con CNN, en 2013.

8.- «Soy optimista biológicamente. Porque quiero a la vida y quiero a la humanidad, pero intelectualmente soy bastante pesimista. Tengo miedo que los humanos no puedan enmendar las cagadas que han hecho» – En su última entrevista con el diario argentino La Nación

9.- “Es tan notable la constitución de nuestra naturaleza que terminas aprendiendo mucho más del dolor que de la bonanza. Esto no quiere decir que recomiendo el camino del dolor, ni nada por el estilo. Quiere decir que le quiero transmitir a la gente que se puede caer y volverse a levantar, y siempre vale la pena volver a empezar, una y mil veces, mientras uno esté vivo. Ese es el mensaje más grande de la vida, que se puede resumir en esto: derrotados son los que dejan de luchar. Y dejar de luchar es dejar de soñar” – Para el documental Human: The Movie, de Yann Arthus-Bertrand, en 2015

10.- «Esto que se llama vida, todas las formas de vida, hay que cuidarlas. Es hermosa la vida. ¿Sabés por qué? Porque la vida es sentimiento, se sienten cosas. (…) Y por eso, amar y vivir con intensidad. Gozar de la vida. Gozar de los colores, de los sentimientos, de la esperanza. Sufrir la frustración, doler, amar y llorar, sacudir la piel, sentir nervio, hambre, frío, esperanza, es la diferencia a lo inerte» – «Pepe Mujica | Mi entrevista más sincera», su charla para el ciclo All These Humans